It's that time of year again. The holidays arrive the same time every year so why should we be surprised? With the blink of an eye the days and months turn into years. As holidays approach and time passes, people can become impatient with family, friends, and coworkers as well as strangers. Tensions rise, anxieties increase, traffic becomes challenging and of course our favorite, family time. Family gatherings, family outings, family photo shoots, family group text messages and emails, family dinners, and the dreaded introductions of family members to a significant other.
Family gatherings are meant to be happy and joyful. However, at times we are on family/emotional overload. Before reaching emotional overload, remember the following:
-It's OK to set time limits with social events.
-It's OK to have an escape plan.
-It's OK to say no.
-Take your own car, you don't need permission to leave early. It's fun to carpool but not fun to be stuck waiting for the person who's had too much wine or hasn't yet had enough.
-Take time for YOU.
We all know people who will overspend choosing what they think is the “perfect” gift when in reality the greatest gift is not the present you bring but your presence. Be kind to yourself.